This video is for a short story by Andy Weir (The Martian and Artemis.) It’s been on my mind since I first viewed it. It aligns with my beliefs but goes beyond where I stopped imagining. (When I realized I couldn’t find out what happens after death without dying, my interest plummeted.) Andy Weir has a fabulous imagination.
I have a more organized understanding of why I view others as I do, now. My transition to full auntie has surprised me in some ways. I thought I would suddenly become a little cranky and say shit like, get off my lawn, (even though I don’t have one.) I was looking forward to having no more damns to give. I was wrong.
It’s the opposite. It’s no longer possible for people younger than me to irk me. When they make mistakes, my reaction varies from an inner chuckle over the memory of when I made the same mistake, to me cheering for them for taking a risk and making that mistake. It’s weird and fun.
Just the other day, I saw a young person make a mistake, and I remember thinking they must be creative. Heh. Full auntie rocks. Also, I have more awe for (good) active parents. I still feel wrapped in the mesmerizing vibe of Fleetwood Mac from the concert in February. I hope it never goes away.
I got a concert BluRay of Evanescences’ Synthesis Live a while ago. The formerly scary (to me) audience has transformed into one where I’ll probably be the weirdest present when I go. Yay. (Even though I know, I’m going to bawl the whole time, just like at the Beyoncè show.) I don’t care. I’ll bring tissues.
If you heard someone shouting, yes, repeatedly, yesterday, it was probably me. Or some other Gettin’ Grown listener. Chef Jade and Dr. Keia are back. 😆 I missed them and am proud of them for demonstrating excellent self-care. (Tell me, show me, sing about it, they all help me grow.)
I read I’m Telling the Truth, But I’m Lying, by Bassey Ikpi recently. (Recommended by both The Read and The Friend Zone podcasts.) It’s essays that describe the experiences of someone coming to terms with mental illness. It’s as intimate as thought and highly relatable in a manner that allows you to feel safe enough to observe up close. When it ended, I wanted it to keep going.
It reminded me we’re as much alike as different, and left me feeling hopeful. Definitely worth reading. I hope it becomes mandatory reading for mental health professionals. I’m off to get ready for date night. I’m dressing up for the first time in ages, so this should be interesting. Heh. ✌🏽💜
p.s. I’m obsessed with The Office now. Until further notice, titles going forward will be quotes from that show.